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Anonymous 24cda9fedb42773cfd9671e7a08d49a7 started this discussion 3 months (2008-08-20 13:21:18 UTC) ago:
Recently (like, last few months) I've found that I can't even get an erection without anal sex or anal play somehow being involved.
As a result, I haven't had sex with my girlfriend in a while - she's virulently anti-anal. It's becoming kind of a problem. I wonder if maybe I'm bisexual or a closet homo; I am almost totally indifferent to vaginas.
How do I remedy this?
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Anonymous bf2bd6f4eb7fffe583bb841433ec394d replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:28:50 UTC) ago, 8 minutes later (#52,414):
I wouldn't take being ass-obsessed as being homosexual, more important is whether you'd put it in an ass belonging to a man.
If the rest of your girlfriend doesn't turn you on, you may have a fetish.
Anonymous 625c54f0002c807df4d20dde4b6c267a replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:30:35 UTC) ago, 2 minutes later (#52,415):
- Close your eyes
- Kiss her or do a bit more foreplay (with clothes on if necessary)
- Get on anti depressants - they can boost your sex drive, amongst other benefits
Anonymous 24cda9fedb42773cfd9671e7a08d49a7 (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:31:13 UTC) ago, 38 seconds later (#52,416):
Well fuck. Is there anything at all I can do to stop this? I mean, having a fetish is great when there's actually a market for it - but from what I understand, half the women who are into anal sex are also S&M queens, or else they're porn stars or nymphomaniacs.
Anonymous 68a1734e931df1f9ad9502c58e18b574 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:34:10 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#52,419):
@52,416Why don't you talk to your girlfriend and explain your situation? Maybe she will give in!
Anonymous 24cda9fedb42773cfd9671e7a08d49a7 (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:37:21 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#52,422):
Definite last resort. She has an excellent ass and she didn't complain when I fingered her there once, but she's always talked about anal is something she'd NEVER try.
Anonymous 8025885e73cf202e5dd929ed32c36273 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 13:39:25 UTC) ago, 2 minutes later (#52,423):
@52,422I said I would never try it too. But I did it. And it was awesome.
Anonymous 460513b5bc5cda5f88ba35d9a9c1158f replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 14:42:50 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#52,438):
Most girls are at least willing to try anal before they denounce it. If OP's girlfriend has never tried, and refuses to try, I would dump her on the grounds that she's a closed-minded bitch.
> - Get on anti depressants - they can boost your sex drive, amongst other benefits
Oh lord no. Most anti-depressants have the exact opposite effect.
Anonymous 2a781c443540b261ebbada0c8430f49b replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 14:43:18 UTC) ago, 28 seconds later (#52,439):
Anti-depressants will mostly likely lower or destroy your sex drive. I'm on something very light and even I have retarded orgasm. Which is nice for my ladyfriends, but I often can't cum at all.
Anonymous 3246bb92aeac585f6d8ae3c480b4e15d replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 15:42:37 UTC) ago, 59 minutes later (#52,461):
@52,415I'm going to have to agree with the previous two posters: What the hell are you talking about!? A ton of antidepressants lower a person's libido and/or cause difficulty reaching orgasm. I don't know if there are any that cause an increase.
Anonymous 625c54f0002c807df4d20dde4b6c267a replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 17:00:16 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#52,495):
Fuck, you're right. Apparently it is supposed to decrease my sex drive (source: every page on google). It is having the opposite effect on me - maybe it is because I am feeling happier so I have more time for sex.
Anonymous fa85b7a20576d56a9e91f406f66ce17d replied with this 3 months (2008-08-27 19:12:36 UTC) ago, 1 week later (#54,992):
my girlfriend is anti-anal as well and use to be anti oral till i started throwing it in her face like a javelin. Sometimes when we're going at it i'll slip a finger in her ass, she never even really mentions it. i guess it depends on how much shes turned on. My advice, find out what does it for her and she'll more then likely return the favor.
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