Topic: no orgasm

Anonymous 024c5dca2b48d6a4698e548ab9963f7d started this discussion 3 months (2008-08-20 20:28:21 UTC) ago:

so, i have never had an orgasm while having sex with a dude. is that weird? i'm a 19 year old female. maybe the guys i've been with don't know what they are doing.

Anonymous 48d92e290c27b09c09e6c58ec6c5a682 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 20:41:19 UTC) ago, 13 minutes later (#52,613):

With you women its an emotional thing more then a phyisical thing. Granted if the guys hung like a horse he needs no emotional connection. First off you need to ask yourself how long do these sexual expirences last. Secondly you need to ask yourself how big is said guy? Finally can you get yourself off?

Anonymous f4c86be64523ec2c54ba5e8e60a48dc6 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 20:43:25 UTC) ago, 2 minutes later (#52,615):

How many times have you had sex?

Anonymous f08d9e0ee981759b004b2dbbfd3d88ff replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 20:53:22 UTC) ago, 10 minutes later (#52,623):

Lots of girls don't get an orgasm vaginally. Nothing unusual.

Anonymous f5c3d69b2d96acd9bccf81e3f5c153d9 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-20 21:55:11 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#52,640):

Chicks only feel the first four inches, so size doesn't matter unless you're trying to fuck her with a toothpick.

Tell him to buttfuck you. Not only will the guy be surprised and happy, it'll probably give you the orgasm you desire.

Anonymous 382ed88c2b7e7e3deade80f2540153c6 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-21 02:26:16 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#52,699):

Anon, the worst place for sex advice.

It's mostly a conditioning thing. Like the first few times you masturbated you most likely did not orgasm either. Also, there are some statistics claiming 70-80% of women can't orgasm from vaginal sex alone, odds are pretty good you're one of them. Chances are whatever it is you do to get off by yourself will make you get off with a partner. Remember sex is not a race to see who can 'get off' faster. Relax and have fun with it!

Anonymous c2fa9b1497c20d69338e53caf6379e05 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-22 01:28:59 UTC) ago, 23 hours later (#53,059):

No orgasm at all? Your partner could have at LEAST gone down on you. Don't be afraid to tell him that you just did not get off. If he isn't willing to help you go the rest of the way, you probably don't wanna continue a relationship with him anyways…

Anonymous 10bca6b0bf0f6d5066391dd70f4fb3f8 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-23 01:20:25 UTC) ago, 24 hours later (#53,657):

I've heard that some women can't orgasm until their early-mid 20s. I'm hoping that's the case with me too. =P

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