Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f started this discussion 3 months (2008-08-27 23:19:47 UTC) ago:
Or at least any clues?
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Anonymous f0127a1eddcb2c4c4da11e8ce8050d2b replied with this 3 months (2008-08-27 23:25:56 UTC) ago, 6 minutes later (#55,047):
When it comes to love, nothing is fail-safe.
That's the only advice I have.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-27 23:33:20 UTC) ago, 7 minutes later (#55,053):
Any things that might be a clue?
Anonymous e369ad4978c3c2e758466e7bb5be2943 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-27 23:36:00 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#55,055):
There are plenty of guides on flirting and body language out there. You could also just ask someone they know if they like you.
Anonymous 31bc4c9d98757990c385426b9b94dd17 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-27 23:37:09 UTC) ago, 1 minute later (#55,056):
@55,055But people can lie..
Anonymous 1c1040cfad3e3b3207fdc09e67aeb175 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 00:04:50 UTC) ago, 28 minutes later (#55,060):
If a girl goes out of her way to spend time with you, in particular, without there being any particular reason for her to do so other than that she enjoys your company, you can be pretty sure that she probably doesn't dislike you. That's probably the clearest, most universal and most easily understood sign. From that point onwards though, it's basically up to you.
Anonymous 016e98a0261b7ac31dc103a80b7994a9 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 00:09:25 UTC) ago, 5 minutes later (#55,062):
@55,056Uh, why would they? You can't be a pessimist when it comes to these things.
Anonymous 80029da7818ec8cfc145ae8aa3b2f45f replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 00:12:51 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#55,065):
A person's pupils dilate when they're looking at someone they're attracted to.
Keep in mind, though, that pupils also dilate due to alcohol, some drugs, and a darkened environment. Drugs and bright environments may prevent them from dilating, too. Pupil size also varies from person to person.
There are several other things that may suggest attraction (Google "body language attraction" or something if you're interested), but pupil dilation is interesting because it's purely a physiological response, like perspiration and elevated pulse, but it's fairly easy to read.
Anonymous 9295f2c8eef0b0d38edd8f8972cde3e7 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 01:59:11 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#55,079):
You know what works? Ignoring whether they actually like you or not, and just assume that they do. It makes things a helluva lot easier; you won't have any doubt in your mind. If you can't tell whether she/he likes you, just pretend that she/he does. If she/he's giving out clear signs of dislike, then you would obviously stop.
Anonymous 9fa3992c8f8a880059896c6e81bff9ed replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 16:58:39 UTC) ago, 15 hours later (#55,201):
If you have to ask…
Anonymous 31bc4c9d98757990c385426b9b94dd17 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 19:28:36 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#55,248):
@55,062Because half of the people are lying bastards who want to see you going down and the other half are too kind to tell you if they don't like you.
Anonymous 9295f2c8eef0b0d38edd8f8972cde3e7 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 21:43:39 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#55,295):
@55,248I don't think you read the original sentence. He said to ask someone the person knows whether or not they like you. I agree that some people would be too nice to tell you they don't like you that way, but his point was that it would be much easier if you'd simply ask that person's friend.
Anonymous 31bc4c9d98757990c385426b9b94dd17 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 21:56:59 UTC) ago, 13 minutes later (#55,299):
@55,295My point still stands. Most people won't tell you the truth, no matter if you ask them about their feelings or the feelings of others. Reasons see my post above.
Anonymous 2b3c8c0bf5d04f98a2897bdd3d6cf90b replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 22:07:24 UTC) ago, 10 minutes later (#55,309):
@55,079I totally agree. You should do this.
Anonymous 8ddf1af182e5eb71da6cfb67752b84e2 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 22:17:04 UTC) ago, 10 minutes later (#55,316):
Just make sure you don't get in the "friends-zone", like I did a couple of years back… *sigh*, foolish times. :)
Anonymous 9295f2c8eef0b0d38edd8f8972cde3e7 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 23:18:24 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#55,339):
@55,316Yeah, keep things edgy and playful. Don't talk about boring shit like work and school all the time.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-28 23:41:56 UTC) ago, 24 minutes later (#55,344):
@55,339Talk about what else instead?
Anonymous 9295f2c8eef0b0d38edd8f8972cde3e7 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 00:35:29 UTC) ago, 54 minutes later (#55,358):
@55,344Christ, I don't know. I'm as new to this love thing as you are. Just keep that in your mind and hopefully something will pop up.
Anonymous 1a8733fd9e6f96885bf2c4cb264f9b9f replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 06:24:35 UTC) ago, 6 hours later (#55,444):
If she laughs at your jokes, sits on your penis or lets you lick her bare feet, that may be a sign that she likes you.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 07:43:43 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#55,447):
@55,444I don't have a penis to lick
OP is female, sorry if that was unclear.
Anonymous 1a8733fd9e6f96885bf2c4cb264f9b9f replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 07:54:08 UTC) ago, 10 minutes later (#55,448):
@55,447Ok. Well if he grinds against you and grabs your boobs, and licks your bare feet then yeah they like you.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 08:13:59 UTC) ago, 20 minutes later (#55,449):
@55,447A penis to sit on even, was in a hurry when I read your last post, sorry.
Anonymous a22b7503ca69dab69d18dfe890a3fa37 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 09:08:49 UTC) ago, 55 minutes later (#55,452):
is he single? then he probably likes you. makes a difference if its a guy we're talking about. friends zone isnt that scary either then.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 09:18:50 UTC) ago, 10 minutes later (#55,455):
He is indeed single
And yeah, I'd still rather not be friends, just because I know things about my male friends that would put me off getting involved with them, but from what I hear it's nowhere near as horrible as a girl saying she likes you. . but more as a friend.
Anonymous a22b7503ca69dab69d18dfe890a3fa37 replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 09:24:47 UTC) ago, 6 minutes later (#55,458):
right then, some female to female advice. when i like people i dont know that well, i notice if they like me on their eyes and body language. like if they smile and look at me in a sort of warm way, not just because i said something funny.
with friends, if they start wanting to spend time with me more than usually or send me cute messages, thats a kinda obvious hint.
depends what your relationship with him is. but he doesnt need to like you, just make him like you. just attack him sexually without coming across as a slut, oh and steal his heart too so it doesnt get platonic only.
Anonymous 82f4f08ef2bb50d82d4868fc771d392f (OP) replied with this 3 months (2008-08-29 09:39:16 UTC) ago, 14 minutes later (#55,462):
Yeah I've just been reading up on the body language stuff, I'll just have to observe next time I see him I suppose, because we're not particularly close or anything
Thank you.
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