Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 started this discussion 2 months (2008-10-05 09:39:01 UTC) ago:
so here im in a pickle.
so ive been dating this girl for…mmm 46 days.
im really liking her. shes attractive smart good sense of humor, her tits aint the biggest but her ass is amazing. good curves. only downside would be shes quite alot indecisive and just seems distant. something i think and hope will change with time.
i dont want to and will not lie to her.
i dont want to hurt her.
now theres this girl ive known for bout 3 years whos from out in the sticks and just far off.
shes hot and weve talked about fucking alot.
and have gotten to hang out in person (i knows her over the net) like 3 times.
the first time we smoked some ganja and just hung out.
second and third time shes been on her period.
but shes gonna be in town again.
and id like to fuck her.
but i jsut dont know.
figured id bring the matter up see what yall thought.
morality.
logically.
experience.
i dont know really what im expecting.
but maybe just want some feed back.
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Anonymous 2b368df934a77095f1cdade49259357e replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 09:51:02 UTC) ago, 12 minutes later (#66,424):
> i dont want to and will not lie to her.
> i dont want to hurt her.
doing it wrong
Anonymous 46abe39b7d03d561414497f6aa1c3798 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 10:12:13 UTC) ago, 21 minutes later (#66,428):
My two cents: it's not worth the guilt.
Anonymous 3f61591c6bba7933de17158adbc210e5 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 10:28:15 UTC) ago, 16 minutes later (#66,431):
First reply gives it away. You don't want to lie to her and hurt her, so thus you shouldn't do it.
Secondary solution - Threesome?
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 11:00:28 UTC) ago, 32 minutes later (#66,434):
i know i want my cake and to eat it too.
chances are i wont do it.
cause the girl has a bf too.
and its kinda screwy.
but i wanna fuck up someone elses relationship less then i wanna fuck up mine own.
i dont know if i do fuck her though. ill have to tell her.
and hope she can forgive me. or something gaaaah craps.
Anonymous 6d95de5d12d16a99cbe5ab0f0e57d068 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 11:31:38 UTC) ago, 31 minutes later (#66,435):
Why would you screw that girl if you knew you would end up telling your girlfriend and then hope for forgiveness?
Ever heard of something called self-control? If your urge for sex is that great, go ahead and do your girlfriend. Don't do that other girl and ruin your relationship that way.
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 11:58:07 UTC) ago, 26 minutes later (#66,436):
might not be ruined.
aaaand its a good question.
its not even totally just a sexual urge.
partially that ive know the chick for a few years and havent gotten to fuck her. and shes hot.
though is just scrappin the lower limit of the two year rule.
aaaaaaaand ….i dont know.
not a bright guy i guess.
my girlfriend knows i hate lying and will not do it regardless of how petty it is.
and she knows i sabotage myself whenever somethings going well.
so if i fucked this other chick.
then told her i was sorry and it would never happen again and i think its just me sabotaging mine relationship because it was going well.
shhhhed probably understand.
i dont know.
ill just see how things go i suppose.
Anonymous c4883f378a1b129ea743eaa9ac7a2ecf replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 12:04:06 UTC) ago, 6 minutes later (#66,442):
Sounds like you are quite young given that you consider a strong meaningful relationship to be 40 odd days. You can't do anything wrong so I'd get some experience and get jiggy with her if it feels good. Your girlfriend will get over it. Sounds like you'd like to sleep with her so I would. If you want to be a good boy, then dump your existing girlfriend. Sounds like she wants to end it anyway being distant.
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 12:40:03 UTC) ago, 36 minutes later (#66,448):
lol
iiiiii personally dont recall saying it was a strong meaningful relationship.
im not saying that its a significant relationship or long or any of that jazz.
but it looks to be heading that way in comparison to other relationships ive had.
which thanks to drugs, alcohol, and promiscuity were not long.
the longest relationship ive had was like 3 months.
but i am fairly young.
19 : ]
old enough to kill for my country but not enough to get drunks.
though honestly i hate when people act condescendingly because of someones age being less then their own.
age is only a number signifying the length of your existence on this pathetic planet.
and does not testify to your life experience or any sort of wisdom or intelligence.
to think that just getting older makes you smarter is…well stupid.
in mine mind. its life experience and that jazz that makes you a better, smarter, whatever person.
but its like 4:40 in the mornin here.
so im probably ramblin off topic alot. i tend to do that in the mornin.
Anonymous 6d95de5d12d16a99cbe5ab0f0e57d068 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 14:39:51 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#66,472):
@66,436That is basically lying to her.
You deliberately fuck that girl and then tell your girlfriend you're sorry so that your relationship doesn't end.
Anonymous 6c1e091ef156115be6003d37a261fbb3 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 17:05:44 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#66,491):
My ex-boyfriend cheated on me with his ex (who was also my best friend). I nearly killed them both. After all, how would you feel if your other half cheated on you?
If you cheat on your girlfriend, she will feel angry and betrayed, and probably not forgive you. If you care about her at all, don't do it. Also, you say this other girl has a boyfriend? How would he feel if he found out about your little tryst? Chances are he'd want to hunt you down and rip your cock off.
It's seriously not worth it; you will feel like shit afterwards, as will your girlfriend.
Anonymous 2411b92f5f04f14c974bacc7afb0ba03 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 17:41:10 UTC) ago, 35 minutes later (#66,499):
Ok…easy solution here…dont do it. Just for a fuck? No.
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 21:25:45 UTC) ago, 4 hours later (#66,544):
To the first guy its not a lie I would be sorry.
To the next girl yeah iii know good points. And the guy would be hard pressed to rip my cock off.
Not doing it would be an easy solution and is probably what ill end up going with.
I probably well end up not doing it.
But the idea just…I don't it is a strange motivation I do not understand.
Could be just me being self destructive. Could be…I dont' know how to describe it but T.S. Eliot does a good job
"We shall not cease from exploration."
"And the end of all our exploring."
"Will be to arrive where we started"
"And know the place for the first time."
I doubt that is it but I have been waiting for a conversation that was quasi relevant to use that quote and had to jump on the chance.
Anyways I am pretty certain it wont happen but that compulsion is still there.
Oh and I for the first time read the little blurb above the reply box.
You can be banned fro horrible grammar?
That is lame.
First some people may not be intelligent to properly articulate themselves, but may still need guidance or input that anontalk could well provide.
Second proper grammar is fucking boring.
Third what qualifies as bad grammar?
….aaaaaaaaaand im off topics again.
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 21:34:45 UTC) ago, 9 minutes later (#66,546):
@66,499Well it would not be for a fuck.
I am not so simple as to be driven by my baser desires to dip my dick.
Though it would not be out of emotion.
I suppose that is contradictory or misleading.
It is not just because I want a/to fuck.
It is not because I am emotionally attracted to the other girl.
It is like I have know this girl for a good bit of time. lol.
And we have been attracted to each other mainly to fuck.
But various obstacles have stopped it. And now I have what is potentially the last chance.
Oh rights.
I am enlisted in the marines.
Within two months there is a good chance ill never see either of them again.
Anonymous a379e169db611c2797325fe9040644e8 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 22:18:59 UTC) ago, 44 minutes later (#66,560):
If you want a future with your girlfriend, don't cheat on her.
Anonymous 6c1e091ef156115be6003d37a261fbb3 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-05 22:19:31 UTC) ago, 32 seconds later (#66,561):
No offence meant, but are you stoned/high at all?
Just curious. Your writing style would suggest so, but maybe that's genuinely how you type?
Also, decent grammar/punctuation/spelling is important when it comes to communication; it allows you to be understood properly, with very little room for misinterpretation.
Anonymous 6682444d01e3835bd419ecb427b38e34 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-10-06 06:22:19 UTC) ago, 8 hours later (#66,698):
lol no I am not high. I spent three years constantly high. Ran through all the drugs save heroin. And am now clean and sober.
Though I do love me some whiskey.
I just do not try to type like I am writing a paper when I am on the internets.
Also I do not like contractions.
And like writing things.
On separate lines and shit like that.
What per say is it that makes it seem as though I am high?
Is.
Is it because I am black?
Which…I am actually not.
Anonymous f1f2bb5f2011a170cc029bcb8d4a86a5 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-11 01:29:56 UTC) ago, 5 days later (#68,412):
Well because you should type out your words fully and try to use good grammar if you want people to take you seriously. I don't think you should fuck her. It's stupid, you'd look like a douchebag. End of story.
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