Anonymous 0562f28227af74262d3f4a12468382fe started this discussion 2 months (2008-10-06 22:58:32 UTC) ago:
After seeing how much anon has helped that other guy out with his little sister, I figured it would be a lot easier for anon to give me advice on capturing a girl without fail. Even though watching someone hook up with their little sister is probably a lot more interesting. Either way, I need anon's help so I don't fail since I really need this.
I attend a school which has an extremely low female population count. I moved to another state so I can attend this school, forcing me to make new friends. I have no problem making male friends but to be completely honest, for the 8 months I have been attending this school, i've only met with a few girls. All which I have met from the internet. From the internet meaning various dating sites and myspace. Now, I'm not so interested in dating a girl as I am just having more female friends since at the moment I don't have any i'd actually want to hang out with. The ones i've met are kinda..ehh.. :|(Pictures lie sometimes).
Anyways. I need anon's help with a new girl. I've seen her only once at school, so thats all I needed to be sure that I'm not in for any surprises. But thats it, I've only seen her once. :[
Then after randomly searching around myspace, I run into her myspace. As people like to do, they add random people to their myspace and so she added me. I find out shes extremely new to the school(and therefore is lacking lots of friends since well, thats the case with most people who are new here). She posted her AIM on her myspace but I have not IM'ed her yet. So heres my problem: Starting a conversation with her over AIM without seeming creepy and stalkerish.
In conclusion:
-She is the cutest girl i've ever seen since i've moved here and I'd really like to get to know her better and hang out with her a lot.
-Its a complete fresh start with talking to her. I tried sending her a message on myspace, but something weird happened and it did'nt send. Maybe that was a good thing..
-Shes a ginger. I've never dated a ginger girl. They are kinda rare as I don't really see them that often.
I do this a lot already, but I want to be sure on this one. When I talk to random girls on the internet that i'm interested in getting to know, I usually just ask lots of questions. This sometimes does not always work, or the way I word things and approach them on the internet sometimes does not work either.
I'm asking anon's help on how I should go about in talking to this girl. Being that I go to this school where girls are as rare as unicorns and the in this world where most girls on dating sites do not talk to most guys on dating sites(Feels completely random, like playing a game of chance on whether they will respond to your messages or not). What sort of questions should I ask? What should I talk about with her to get her into me? Should I talk up myself(brag about accomplishments, etc etc), ask her lots of questions? Personal ones? What exactly should I do?
Also:
- I have tried going -out- to places to meet girls. Mostly to the mall, but every girl i've talked to at the mall is..well..underaged. :[ (I don't have a car. So even if I did date them. Seeing them will be..well..impossible unless I enjoy biking miles on end to see these girls). I've tried clubs, but I've found myself to be pretty shy/exor unable to effectively talk to girls.
-I excersise occasionally. I believe I'm at least decent looking and im not fat. I dress kinda nicely as well.
If there are any details you would like to know, please be sure to ask. Although because retardchan is able to track people down through pictures, I won't be posting any myspaces or pictures anytime soon. :[
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Anonymous 7ba574943004f456ef60dffd6102d762 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-06 23:46:43 UTC) ago, 48 minutes later (#66,984):
AIM her and start out with school, "Hey, it says you go to XXX but i don't think I've ever seen you around before, are you new?" "Oh, me too"
It's an easy start, just don't freak out when you're doing it and take it easy.
(As for the rest of your life, pick up Neil Strauss' : The Game.
Anonymous 2c3c6d3f27a842d1ceb76f65f90ddbf4 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-07 17:02:21 UTC) ago, 17 hours later (#67,241):
Um, you should probably just start of the conversation with her by saying something neutral like, 'Hi, you added me on myspace? Are you new at *insert school*?' and start from there. Try not to get to know her too well over the internet because it can really cause problems when it comes to speaking IRL.
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