I cant take it anymore, things are so fucked up. My keyboard is nearly flooded with tears.

I'm too pussy to commit suicide so I'm planning to run away, I just need tips.

Id like to stay in the same country, but changing countries does sound advantageous as well.

What do i do? Do i tell the authorities not to search for me? What do i need to take? Has anyone done this?

I literally have a million questions to ask

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Age, sex and location? Knowing those variables is a must to help.

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I was planning on restarting my life in a new country - not out of failure or hardship in America but out of disdain for it. I've done a bit of research. What do you need to figure out?

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How do you plan on getting income after you relocate? Most places don't pay you in cash and it is tough to get banking going if you don't have a legal residence olr mailing address.

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20 Male New York

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See that's what I was most worried about and confused about. How do I get all that going?

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Hmm. Seems to me that the problem would be getting a job, not getting a bank. If you have money in any form (cash, negotiable, etc.) then a bank will happily do business with you. Just take your first paycheck up to $BANK and say, "I'd like to open an account." Honestly, I can't see at all how this is even an issue.

Of course, getting a job is an issue. However, that's an inherent risk of "running away". Either find a job in advance, or save up at least enough money to hang out for a few weeks. If you're really broke, you can always try to find a crashpad on Craigslist or something.

The missing person thing could be a hassle. Technically, there's nothing illegal about you just picking up and leaving and not talking at all with the local police. However, friends / relatives / the police who are looking for you will waste a lot of time and worry if you don't let them know that you're gone. If you have the money (I don't know your circumstances), you could easily retain a law firm to notify the police that you are not missing without divulging any further information about your whereabouts. This would be pretty cheap - maybe $500 for a retainer that would last a month or so (more than necessary).

Of course, you could get someone else to do it, but a law firm is a better idea for two reasons: (1) the other person might not be believed, or could even be suspected in your disappearance and interrogated, (2) the law firm really can't divulge information that you tell them to keep confidential (or else the lawyers face disbarment).

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just back pack across the country, on your adventures you might find people who will take you in for the night, otherwise you are camping or using a bench.

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Thanks AT you are the best

Ill apply for a job at a different state. When I get accepted to one, then ill tell the local police that Ill be running away and to not waste resources finding me (i cant afford lawyer route)

If i can suppress my old demons and get a new start…I might actually start enjoying life

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Go to live to Costa Rica.

Just the fact of speaking English natively and knowing a little bit about computers will land you a great job. Everything is much cheaper, from houses to food.

No terrorist groups, great beaches and lanscapes, you'll love it.The poeple are generally very friendly and non-xenophobic.

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OP, if you don't have the money to hire a lawyer, it's still really no big deal. Rest assured, however, that the police can and will tell your family anything that they know about you or have heard from you. Also, if you are not the type of person who would be expected to "run away", remember that your family could turn this into a shitstorm. Suppose that they think that you've been kidnapped and were "forced" to call the police to stop any investigation? The police would have little choice but to investigate (if it turned out that you were kidnapped, the political fallout to the police would be devastating).

So what would happen? You'd call the cops to tell them that you've "merely run away". Then the cops get heat to investigate. So they call the cops in the jurisdiction where you're located. The cops drop by to make sure that you really are fine and not kidnapped.* They'll tell the cops back home, "Yeah, he's fine, he's at $ADDRESS." Then the home cops tell your family where you live. Not that big of a deal, but it might be seen as defeating the purpose of running away instead of just leaving. ;)

* CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE: At this point, you'd better not be living it up in your newfound freedom by relaxing with some pot. If so, at this point in the story, the cops will beat you with billyclubs and take you to jail. THE END.

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Off-topic, but I had some friends who just got back from Costa Rica. They reported that the pussy there was plentiful, easily obtainable, and of an uncommonly high quality. In fact, they said that a high proportion of college-aged (and college-attending) females will happily hook up in exchange for a small (by U.S. standards) amount of money, and are cool about it. They also said that the weather was just fantastic (temperate and breezy, almost room temperature) and that the equivalent of $50 (US) will get you a night in a good hotel. Are these things true?

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Dude, really? Running away isn't going to solve anything. That phrase is cliche for a reason.

If your life is so terrible than what makes you think that by avoiding it you won't just end up in the same situation some place else? You're probably so stepped in your misery that whatever I say will just wash over you unless it furthers whatever cause you've set your mind on, but there is no way things are so bad that they can't be solved. You obviously have access to a computer and the internet and can afford food to eat, so what is so horrible that you just can't cope with?

You're still alive. There's always something that can be done.

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The prostitution in Costa Rica is widespread and extremely varied, anything goes.
The college-aged girls that you mention work on two lines: Massage parlors, which generally are very inexpensive, but the girls are not that good looking. The other ones are in high-end whorehouses, which can go up to the thousands but this is model-level of pussy and they are always gonna cost less than their equivalents here. The rest are mostly foreigners, who pick up guys at corners and in bars.
What you should avoid at all cost is picking up a prostitute in San Jose Downtown. Avoid the Hotel Del Rey, that's where the poor/stupid sex tourists go to get laid. An airport cab driver is the best option to inform yourself about your options, but you can even find the massage parlors numbers in newspaper classifieds.

There are tons of websites exclusively dedicated for sex tourists that come to Costa Rica, you should check those out. I personally recommend you to visit Jaco Beach, it has loads of hookers, incredible hotels, nice clubs, and a really tourist friendly environment.

The weather is one of the best in the world. Actually Atenas, a city there, shares with another city in Austria the title of the best weather in the world. The downside is the long rainy-season. And to answer your last question, yes. Actually during low season, $50 per day will get you an all inclusive in a beach hotel.

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