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Topic: What are these BDSM websites really?

Anonymous afc2956643d1e7cbc27f376017776ade started this discussion 2 months (2008-10-10 10:28:57 UTC) ago:

I have a question about all of these, "find your mistress or master here" websites. Just what the hell are they? Are they basically a dating website or just a site for people in the BDSM community to get a fix? I never figured out what they were really.

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Anonymous 0bde52bced2d19e76a97abd9dfe3f125 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-10 13:44:14 UTC) ago, 3 hours later (#68,257):

Probably a scam, just like all dating/sex contact sites…

Anonymous 8e853bdbe2dda7aa8a27502be9f3fa2a replied with this 2 months (2008-10-10 17:14:59 UTC) ago, 4 hours later (#68,282):

@68,257

Like he said, they are probably some kind of scam.

However…

In therory they are websites desined to help you find people who are also interested in BDSM

Anonymous a234465a60098f2954dbbe4ca8dca999 replied with this 2 months (2008-10-11 00:17:50 UTC) ago, 7 hours later (#68,396):

@68,282

Like ALT or whatever it's called?

Anonymous 5227963af0d67bc5e232ae2cd9c7f78b replied with this 2 months (2008-10-11 04:47:52 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#68,471):

Maybe some are scams, but I know of some legitimate ones. They're sites for people interested in BDSM to meet others who are also interested. This can lead to meeting up just for BDSM sessions, but some people on those sites state that they are looking for a monogamous relationship to pursue a specific BDSM role.

Anonymous c64440a4e08cd68e8f5b474d2f12685f replied with this 2 months (2008-10-12 06:05:50 UTC) ago, 1 day later (#68,828):

Try collarme.com. And use the forums, Luke. It gives people a chance to know more about you than your ad, and you just might meet someone that way. I joined it for the forums, because a number of friends of mine IRL were on it and it gave me a chance to keep in touch with the people who lived out of state.

Enjoy.