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Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 started this discussion 1 month (2008-10-11 02:28:32 UTC) ago:
Due to uncontrollable circumstances I have become lonely
But looking at it, I end up saving a lot of money and emotional labor.
Instead of going out and getting drunk, I'll be home on anontalk
Instead of going out and just chilling out with friends, I'll be at work earning some money
Instead of having friends then having fights then trying to fix that relationship up again, I'll be at home enjoying my peace and quiet
Yes it does get sad at times when you have nobody to share your most exciting moments in life with.
Maybe its just cause I'm young and naive, but I'm sure money can keep me happy for a long while?
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Anonymous 78dce06e81506172216c4b2f871467c4 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 02:30:18 UTC) ago, 2 minutes later (#68,421):
No, it does not have benefits. Humans are social animals. If you are asocial, you are a failure.
Anonymous b638fd61019d74837184f8b8a8f3e7e0 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 02:41:47 UTC) ago, 11 minutes later (#68,426):
Aww, i think anon needs a hug.
i will become just like you one day…
Anonymous e780f47b8c05fb3d3d07a0cb0937b970 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:16:57 UTC) ago, 35 minutes later (#68,441):
Being lonly is alright for a while, but you will soon want to get back into the swing of things.
But like you said, it is nice to come home to a quiet house without any drama or problems to think about.
Anonymous 4a42c029e7892f6d10a6346beed68c22 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:20:38 UTC) ago, 4 minutes later (#68,445):
@68,441> Being lonly is alright for a while, but you will soon want to get back into the swing of things.Prove that I will soon want to get back into the swings of things.
Anonymous e780f47b8c05fb3d3d07a0cb0937b970 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:23:41 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#68,447):
Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:28:41 UTC) ago, 5 minutes later (#68,450):
@68,445Ive been completely lonely for the last 3 years
Its hard getting back into the swing of things, also I wouldn't know how to get back into the swing of things anymore, its complicated
I often do wish I had someone to talk to, to spend time with…but I try not to cloud my mind with negativity and things I cannot achieve
Anonymous b7cf8a564334e8ebdce8726a1aadc378 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:33:27 UTC) ago, 5 minutes later (#68,452):
I feel you, OP. I know what you mean. If you don't want to be lonely, I suggest joining a group or some sort of organized activity (like a gym membership, or w/e). If you don't have a problem with it, then by all means keep on going that way.
Right now I spend most of my free time on the internet, etc., instead of drinking or partying like other people I know. It works pretty well for me.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do, OP.
Anonymous 7bb34e33b57748f9e21c014863d651ef replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 03:37:02 UTC) ago, 4 minutes later (#68,453):
Dude I have been a pariah most of my life and let me just say…Its not that bad. You have far more time to reflect on life and society or whatever you want to think about really. I have found that people talk about the dumbest shit and I just get frustrated when I realize that the epitome of modern society revolves around Paris Hilton or every little fucking detail of what you did today. IT IS NOT IMPORTANT! NOTHING IS IMPORTANT! When you die you cannot leave an everlasting legacy. I'd likle to quote Kansas on this one… "All we are is dust in the wind" I'm rambling at this point I just want you all to know that I hate you all… NO EXCEPTIONS ;)
Anonymous ca0c9ca0823fefa6ee9861407b2037c4 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 13:40:58 UTC) ago, 10 hours later (#68,511):
I've been lonely most of my life? I don't wish to get back into the swing of things.
I'm successful, and have the people i need to live. Sure, i might want a girlfriend later on? Just as someone to talk to (other than AT), but id much prefer peace and quiet than clubs and pubs, and other social events.
I think it really depends on what type of person you are; Introvert or extrovert.
its done me good bieng alone. why not him?
Anonymous 68b4cdbc9ef5436c208013adbc750126 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 15:49:06 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#68,527):
@68,421Humans are social animals in order to survive as a species. By and large, I would think there are enough people being scoiable for continued survival too allow us few a simple life of solitude and quiet.
Anonymous 630dcf63f8ea8b94b9c30b8a8946244b replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 15:55:22 UTC) ago, 6 minutes later (#68,528):
It would be hard to get back into the swing of things because old groups you used to hang out with are closed really, because if you haven't been with them for a while they don't care and it pisses me off, so it is a bit complicated.
Anonymous 16d091f5f0c7972f53bbfce724a8d4fb replied with this 1 month (2008-10-11 21:30:58 UTC) ago, 6 hours later (#68,634):
You guys are comparing two extremes: Total loneliness and reckless partying. That's all I've seen you guys talk about so far. There is an in between, you know. Me and my friends don't necessarily have to be completely isolated, or go out to clubs. We go to the movies, go play frisbee on a field, play video games together, etc… It seems to me like your saying that the only social interactions are partying and clubbing, and that is reason you are asocial. This is completely false.
If your problem isn't social situations, but people in general, you need to find better people. While it's true that a lot of people talk about dumb shit, there are always people who don't. Find these people and spend time with them in reality. It'll be much more enjoyable than fulfilling your need for social interaction through AnonTalk.
Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 02:31:34 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#68,721):
@68,634Yeah you are completely right.
But in my case, there are two types of people: Party animals who never know what a hangover is cause they never stop drinking; or a bunch of (insert word) who hate going out?
Im not a party animal…never will be. I mind once in a while, but going to 3 different party's a night every night is not what I would enjoy.
I don't mind spending time with the other group. But they are never bothered to do anything, Ill have to take them out of their house at gunpoint for something to happen.
I wish I could find friends who would just like spending mindless time together
Anonymous 1be985e76f1d4c0510b92f1f32a83100 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 05:35:17 UTC) ago, 3 hours later (#68,818):
I'll spend some mindless time with you OP. I just bought a ps3 and the girly friend isn't much for video games. My only good friend just shipped off to the Marines.. so I am now in the lonely boat with you. I just need a video game buddy, mabye someone to go shoot some guns with and perhaps have a beer with now an then.
Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 05:54:41 UTC) ago, 19 minutes later (#68,825):
Anonymous 6e6f9778cbc9510cce372203bad89edf replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 05:55:00 UTC) ago, 19 seconds later (#68,826):
lol, go read boxman
same concept
Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 06:31:45 UTC) ago, 37 minutes later (#68,834):
Anonymous 1be985e76f1d4c0510b92f1f32a83100 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-12 17:36:35 UTC) ago, 11 hours later (#68,924):
lol op, i'm from kansas. i doubt your anywhere near me. and i don't think i could have a casual buddy a couple thousand miles away… it would defeat the concept
Anonymous 8eac343646117f59da736d21829fee29 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-13 05:19:10 UTC) ago, 12 hours later (#69,182):
You have to learn how to balance between your time spent alone and time spent with other people socializing. If you ask any rich people who got everything made, at least 3/4th will say your family and friends are the main reasons to live their lives (besides ripping people off *cough).
Anonymous eceff2e086151dc4236701224e65f814 replied with this 1 month (2008-10-14 07:42:16 UTC) ago, 1 day later (#69,656):
Where are all of these lonely people IRL? If I knew who the fuck you guys were I'd be friends with you. Hell, I'd let you all fuck me. I'm 13, by the way.
Anonymous 08052743bf69fdce8aa94ddf81b1e4e8 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-10-14 08:29:44 UTC) ago, 47 minutes later (#69,695):
@69,656Same, but im not 13
Anonymous b81548dc5d99d77db74ffd36c2753a48 replied with this 4 weeks (2008-10-26 07:30:23 UTC) ago, 2 weeks later (#74,597):
@69,656Everywhere but where you live.
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