Okay, I already liked 12 year old girls, but lately it has gotten so much worse! I had an experience today that made me realize just how bad i have gotten:
So I am in Walmart today and I see a beautiful blonde…being pushed in a shopping basket! And I think "ooooohh" and feel compelled to go down the aisle she is in being pushed by her big jock guy dad. I feel I HAVE to check her out and of course I have to act casual and not let her dad see me looking at his 4 year old hot blonde daughter. I realized from this experience today i must be totally out of my mind, what have I become? how am i going to get through the rest of my life this way? this is just too much, it is like going crazy!

please someone give me some insight on this, pedos and nons alike if you think you have anything constructive to contribute, especially pedos who have dealt with this longer than i though, it is still a pretty new thing to me.

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How are you going to live with… what? Walking down an aisle and seeing a cute girl that brightens your day? Woe is you.

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Theres nothing wrong with that, as long as you have no sexual urges towards her that you want to act upon?

If that's the case, then think about the child…do you really want to fuck up that cute little kids future?

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I don't just see a cute girl and think it's nice though. I feel drawn to them like a magnet and I feel like I need to get a good look at them and wish I could take them home to play and cuddle with me. I mean it is a lot like seeing a beautiful woman, but it's just little kids! why do i feel this way!?

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Wow, the girls can already be so beautiful with long silky hair ect by even 4 years old its insane.

I don't feel very sexual but i'm pretty sure it's a romantic attraction I have to them and people would already think im a monster for that. I don't know why i am having these feelings, but i didn't do it on purpose.

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Simple: Get a job where you are around many lolis, daycare, child doctor, church, school janitor/teacher…etc,mall security guard, your choice… Also you could join the military for some reason military families have lots of lolis.

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I can relate to your dilema OP. I am attracted to very young girls as well. Mine is more sexual though. I would never touch a girl in that way though.

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I think there are people who are sexually attracted to the perfect form of children and prey upon the illusion of innocence, these ppl are pedophiles if they act upon their fetish, otherwise it's just a fetish (you have to be careful that you don't perpetuate the pedo acts though…like dl'ing pedo pictures) Pedophilia is wrong, perpetuating pedophilia is wrong…having a fetish is not wrong, it is normal.

Then there are people who are not sexually attracted to children but have a hard time separating feelings of attraction due to thinking a little girl/boy is cute (or smart, or unique, or special in a non-sexual way) and feelings of attraction due to sexual desire.

People who are like the above paragraph may also feel sexually attracted to a picture of a cute little girl in a sexually provocative position…but only because it's a sexually provocative picture and the person in it is cute.

For example…a cute 7 year old girl with long blonde hair, blue eyes, fair skin, and a pretty face comes up to you at a gathering and holds her hands up to you pretending to hold something and says "Here Anon, I made you a pie" and smiles showing a missing tooth that just fell out.

How would this make you feel? A pedo would get the little girl into a situation at some point throughout the day where she is alone and do things to her. Someone sexually attracted to children would fantasize later about the little girl sucking his cock. Someone without the ability to separate different types of attraction would think about how cute the girl is and smile, but have an undertone of arousal that is pretty non-specific. It's obviously not that cut-and-dry but that's my take on why attraction to children exists.

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Saying that pedophilia is wrong is like saying insanity is wrong. You can't control mental conditions or personal preferences. Hell, its lake telling someone to stop being gay. Perpetuating pedophilia…I have no clue what the fuck that means. Distributing child porn? Yeah, I wouldn't agree to making or distributing that stuff. Once its on the internet though the damage is done. No more harm is going to come to the kid from you watching a bloody video, however bad it may be. You watch people get hit by cars for shock value or a laugh (if you're a bit twisted). Do you object to that? No, they're dead! Ha ha, jolly good, accidents and whatnot eh? Shut the fuck up.

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I didn't say that pedophilia as being "attracted" to children is wrong, I said that acting on it is wrong…learn some reading comprehension before you try to form a rebuttal. I even tried to separate the terms of someone who is "a Pedo", "sexually attracted to children", or "without the ability to separate different types of attraction" in the last paragraph to re-iterate what I was talking about. Sorry I couldn't put it in bold for you.

Perpetuating pedophilia would be creating or redistributing it. And watching, distributing videos of people being killed in accidents is not illegal, CP is…you're comparing apples and oranges there.

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