Topic: I feel really bad after sex

Anonymous A started this topic 9 months (2009-07-02 22:28:?? UTC) ago (#28,765):

It is not that I don't like it. I do get real horny before I actually do it, but after it is done, I feel really bad, like something is missing. And by the way, I am a guy and have had sex with both girls and boys. Anybody else feel the same way or knows what my problem is?

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:29:?? UTC) ago, 42 seconds later (#171,885):

Uh are these legal age people your having sex with?

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:32:?? UTC) ago, 3 minutes later, 4 minutes past creation (#171,888):

i'm having it with people of my own age.

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:35:?? UTC) ago, 3 minutes later, 7 minutes past creation (#171,890):

I'm not sure what it is. But I have similar feelings after masturbation.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:37:?? UTC) ago, 2 minutes later, 8 minutes past creation (#171,892):

mate I've have the same feeling. Its like I miss something like the thrill is away

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:37:?? UTC) ago, 15 seconds later, 9 minutes past creation (#171,893):

It could be that you are just having meaningless sex with someone you don't care that much about. You may just be longing for a "soulmate" to share the experience with. Some more information on your situation would be beneficial.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:38:?? UTC) ago, 2 minutes later, 10 minutes past creation (#171,894):

like what kind of information ?

Anonymous E replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:39:?? UTC) ago, 50 seconds later, 11 minutes past creation (#171,895):

Like do you have a lot of one night stands or fuck-buddies that you do it with.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 22:44:?? UTC) ago, 5 minutes later, 16 minutes past creation (#171,897):

nope. only people I have/had feelings for and sometimes dated.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 23:10:?? UTC) ago, 26 minutes later, 42 minutes past creation (#171,904):

I use to have that problem. Until I fell in love. Your probably just wanting it to mean more. But if your having meaningless sex it you won't feel much at all.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-02 23:53:?? UTC) ago, 43 minutes later, 1 hour past creation (#171,950):

I used to get that feeling, you are a victim of your hormones. I'm changing sex now and taking estrogen + anti-androgens and I've never felt better. I'm pretty lucky really I I'm quite good looking even for a girl I think. I feel sorry for all you guys controlled by you desires for women/other but then you probably think I'm a crazy fag or something. Women still have desire but it doesn't dominate our thoughts in the way testosterone makes you.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 00:00:?? UTC) ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours past creation (#171,954):

@171,897

You're doing it wrong. Is it any wonder it's not working for you like you expected? Sex is for marriage. It's not normal for people to run around from one sexual partner to another.

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 00:14:?? UTC) ago, 14 minutes later, 2 hours past creation (#171,963):

@previous

OP asked for help, not your ignorant, condescending evaluation of his lifestyle.

Anonymous H replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 00:18:?? UTC) ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours past creation (#171,966):

@previous

And I offered my help. Just because the solution is unpopular doesn't mean it should be disregarded as unacceptable. Do you have a better solution?

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 02:59:?? UTC) ago, 3 hours later, 5 hours past creation (#172,085):

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Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 03:40:?? UTC) ago, 42 minutes later, 5 hours past creation (#172,102):

@171,954

> You're doing it wrong. Is it any wonder it's not working for you like you expected? Sex is for marriage. It's not normal for people to run around from one sexual partner to another.

I don't know how you came up to the conclusion that I was having hippie-like relationships, but I think it's most likely my fault for not making that clear to those individuals that assume things before they get the facts straight. I've only had sex with people I have dated, and that is a total of five, 4 girls, and one boy. And what is wrong with sex before marriage? how is sex only for married people? I don't know if you know it, but we live in the year 2009, and that is totally acceptable.

Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 9 months (2009-07-03 04:35:?? UTC) ago, 55 minutes later, 6 hours past creation (#172,126):

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Topic: I feel really bad after sex