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Anonymous 48236bc4815f14.67733022 started this discussion 2 months (2008-05-21 17:39:07 UTC) ago:
I'm not considering becoming abstinent, but I wonder if its possible for a person with a normal sex drive to go through life with no sex and yet be truly happy with life in every way reasonable. Does it require that the person is blinded by some dogma for him to be happy in this situation? I don't know; discuss.
Anonymous 482249ca3c6b56.49783883 replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 17:46:51 UTC) ago, 8 minutes later (#18,899):
You say 'normal sex drive'. Personally, I don't think it's possible to be content in life with no sex, if you are a mature adult with a 'normal sex drive.' A normal sex drive requires that you doooo have sex. It's an ingrained primitive need and desire. So no, I don't think you can be truly content.
Anonymous 483462dbba4243.20739801 replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 18:24:47 UTC) ago, 38 minutes later (#18,910):
no sex=notions of lonliness and nobody likes to be lonly
Anonymous 48236bc4815f14.67733022 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 19:01:43 UTC) ago, 37 minutes later (#18,914):
@18,910One can have no sex but not be lonely. People with botched circumcisions might.
Anonymous 482afc4360d093.46294766 replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 19:15:26 UTC) ago, 14 minutes later (#18,919):
@18914and this is why i'm glad my dicks not cut
Anonymous 482f6c3c5891e2.51127191 replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 20:41:53 UTC) ago, 1 hour later (#18,928):
Personally, I'm happier without sex. It's messy and can lead to complicated emotions and tension between people.
Then again, I don't exactly have a 'normal sex drive' so I guess I'm exempt from this conversation…
Anonymous 4834970f3442f4.88280085 replied with this 2 months (2008-05-21 22:19:35 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#18,952):
my lack of sex drives me mad, sometime I think it's the only thing I enjoy in life. THB I love being on my own; just need sex, food, alcohol and internets and I'm fairly happy. Shame that my love of being on my own destroys my chances of sex…
Anonymous 4832ad284a9721.77726881 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-21 22:59:00 UTC) ago, 39 minutes later (#18,974):
no
Anonymous 48121b8c955019.80791400 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-21 23:16:21 UTC) ago, 17 minutes later (#18,976):
People with a sex drive are primitive apes. Such people must be eliminated for they slow down the intellectual evolution of humanity. Continuation of the species is possible without sex, so that's not a problem.
Anonymous 482d61757e0072.19387124 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 03:36:18 UTC) ago, 4 hours later (#19,021):
Sex is part of the many human passions that make life as enjoyable as it is, anyone who says otherwise is a liar, a fool, a skunk, a charred monkey's banana, a festering zombie, a piece of fruit, a damned idiot et cetera.
Sadly I only get it from prostitutes.
I'm not ugly though, or fat, I'm just a sad loner.
I'll have to try going out other than for lectures :D.
Anonymous 4833c7af60be86.05503821 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 09:00:17 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#19,050):
I like sex as much as anyone but it's not the be-all and end-all of my life. Of course this happens when you get older but that's another topic.
Whether you do it with another person (or two, or three, or more!) or simply masturbate, the end result is the same. You blow your wad.
A lot has been written about 'emotional satisfaction' but I don't want to discuss that.
A more important question you should think about is: Is it worth going through all the bullshit that's involved in a relationship (and women ALWAYS want a relationship… that way they can fool themselves into believing they aren't just another whore) just to get your rocks off?
When I was younger I chased -and caught- a lot of pussy. After a while you learn that shape and size notwithstanding, it's all pretty much the same. All I care about… all I (and if more men would be honest they would concur) EVER cared about was blowing my load. Didn't matter if it was in a pussy, mouth, ass, face or a tissue.
Yeah, I think you can be content, as long as you are honest about your motivation.
Anonymous 482702df6149f6.03303010 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 11:52:56 UTC) ago, 3 hours later (#19,066):
@18,952I got the same problem lol but w/e gotta deal with it
Anonymous 4835f323198d59.47420477 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 23:15:29 UTC) ago, 11 hours later (#19,245):
The key phrase here is "normal sex drive" and the answer to that question is no. You can't indefinitely deprive yourself of a strong biological urge and expect to be content. This is my assumption, anyways, based on what my friends have told me the urge feels like.
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