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Anonymous 4814c26408aca2.24835269 started this discussion 1 month (2008-05-21 23:41:02 UTC) ago:
Greetings, exalted Anon.
I have dated this one girl 3 seperate times. The first time we broke up because I was an ubernub at girlfriends, and quite frankly, I sucked. At the time I didn't understand, but since then I have wised up. The second time we broke up because her father found out. The third time we broke up because (1) Her sister was threatening to blow the whistle on her and I. (2) She "couldn't date somebody who had different beliefs than she did." [She is Christian, I am Deist.] This last breakup was about, oh, 2 weeks ago.
Now she wants me again. Bad. We've talked alot and shes told me >9000 times that she is sorry and my religion was a stupid reason to break up and not being Christian doesn't mean I'm a bad person etc. Today she flirted with me almost constantly. Some highlights of this include :
Her telling me she has dreams about me and various BDSM items (not sure if shes into that ; not sure that I ' 'want' ' her to be into that).
Her blatantly saying, in front of our mutual friends, that she "wants some of 'this'". [Gesturing to me.]
She surprised me by kissing me on the lips. When I jokingly asked her if she wanted something, she said "more than you know" and proceeded to forcefully French me for a few moments.
So, I guess what I'm really asking you, Anon, is should I go out with her again? The attraction is strong from both parties, but I'm very wary of her and her past decision to break up with me for religion. The state I am in is in the Bible Belt, and has deep-rooted prejudice against anything not WASP. Perhaps I just had to open her eyes and make her realize that just because we don't believe the same things ; I'm not a bad person. I was the first non-Christian she dated.
TL ; DR - Went out with this girl 3 times. Broke up because of (1st) my failure at life, (2nd) her crazy father, (3rd) religion and her crazy sister. She really wants me again. I'm scared that she still will have prejudice towards me/think me inferior because I'm not Christian. Should I date her again?
Anonymous 482a5fe59ce418.03595604 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 00:29:50 UTC) ago, 49 minutes later (#18,994):
BDSM, frenching while broken up, etc… She doesn't sound very hardcore Christian, so why is it even a problem? I suppose age might play a factor, as for some reason I am picturing you in high school (father finding out…) But, she sounds kind of icky to me.
Anonymous 4814c26408aca2.24835269 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 00:44:34 UTC) ago, 15 minutes later (#18,998):
@18,994Yes, I am a sophmore in high school.
Anonymous 4834dc42e96a30.24327158 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 02:41:32 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#19,009):
If you like her I don't see what the problem is.
Anonymous 4814c26408aca2.24835269 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 02:44:09 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#19,011):
@19,009The problem is I don't want to get dumped again just because I'm not Christian.
Anonymous 4834e77a04e8e1.40828850 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 03:29:03 UTC) ago, 45 minutes later (#19,019):
if u8 do be like, your a hard-core bitch and writ her off then, give it another shot dude. take it from me loneliness is the worst thing i have ever had to deal with internally. dont be the same as me.
Anonymous 47b1dbccd4fce5.36255809 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 03:36:47 UTC) ago, 8 minutes later (#19,022):
@19,019Who said dyslexic people couldn't use the Internet?
Anonymous 4834d741ea33c6.67968292 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 04:19:04 UTC) ago, 42 minutes later (#19,028):
lulz@#19,022
i bet she's just not "flirting" with you.. she's doing the entire church choir, so if you can tap it… then tap it!
Anonymous 480f535a033223.64184202 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 04:37:38 UTC) ago, 19 minutes later (#19,031):
My advice:
Get together agian the GTFO of whatever shithole it is you live in. Find somewhere that recognises gay people as human and does not consider a Klan uniform accepteble.
Anonymous 4835082a230d04.85181542 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 06:46:06 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#19,038):
It comes from my experience that those religious girls are FULL OF SHIT. They all like to spout off the biblical shit but when it realy comes down to it, they want the cock just like any other girl. She obviously doesnt mind the religion issues so much. So go hit that christian pussy! =D
Anonymous 4814c26408aca2.24835269 (OP) replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 11:41:33 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#19,065):
Thanks, all of you. Except dyslexic boy. I couldn't understand what the fuck you were saying.
Anonymous 4824eeb597e926.41411157 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-22 16:13:34 UTC) ago, 5 hours later (#19,109):
Anonymous 4815efa1bb74c7.63077848 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-24 16:42:56 UTC) ago, 2 days later (#19,650):
Christian bitches are ALWAYS full of shit. They LOVE and TAKE the COCK regularly. :)
Anonymous 483bc8379ec403.47191078 replied with this 1 month (2008-05-27 09:57:15 UTC) ago, 3 days later (#20,215):
Even if she was serious about her religion, any girl would give that up any day for her sexual urges.
If she wants you, and it seems she does, then it won't fucking matter if you were a Muslim extremist.
My grilfriend once got REALLY pissed at me about religion, and would be patronising and insult me over it, but then she realised she didn't want to lose me and she respects me for standing by my beliefs.
The second reason of her dad being a fag can't be helped, parents are always getting in the way of their children growing up, I don't see why he wouldn't want you to be with her (if it's religion, then who cares? he's obviously one of those asshole bigot xenophobic people).
I can't remember the first reason… but whatever.
My advice would be to get back with her, she seems like a good person.
Don't just "fuck her and chuck her", as the other people here would advise you to do.
If you're thinking about getting back with her after the third time then something must be right.
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