… is that I could actually get one, but it would be an ugly one. I simply couldn't make it; I can't force myself to "lower my standards" even at this beyond desperate stage.

While it would be nice to have somebody there to talk to and so on, having to explain why I can't have sex with her and don't wanna kiss her would be more than a little awkward (ugly women disgust me).

This probably sounds silly, but it's how it is… Sigh.

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Look, just go for a decent looking girl! Contrary to popular belief, you can work on your appearance. You may need some counseling to get over the whole "grown women are disgusting thing."

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> You may need some counseling to get over the whole "grown women are disgusting thing."

I said that ugly women disgust me. Not grown ones. Jesus. Pay some fucking attention once in a while…

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Usually, most girls get prettier once they start dating.

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No he is assuming again that all of anontalk's userbase is comprised of pedophiles.
Also, lowering your standards is stupid. In general, women are impressed by superior social status, money and fitness. I think it matters more to men than it does to women how ugly someone is. Frequently I see attractive women going out with ugly idiots, who are either strong or have a lot of friends. Just either make some money, or do some weight training.

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Improve your odds for the better looking girls.

Wardrobe, style, personality, etc.

If you can find other attractive traits in a girl, you wont be lowering your standards. Rather, finding what's good in them. If you fall back to value one solely on looks, it will end from there.

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http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/ - not all these girls are hot, but you get the idea

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You haven't even explained why you think you "can't get a girlfriend" anyway.

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You're doing fine. Keep it up.

Don't bother listening to any of those losers that'll guilt you into having a girlfriend just for the sake of having one. It's quality, never quantity. Keep your standards. Sure, you could hook up with some cow of a chick who’s equally as compromising on her own ideal mate's standards, who would be using you for the same reason as you her, and both of you would have no social connection with another and have nothing in common save the fact you were both "available" and no one else was biting. But at least when everyone around you is talking about their ex-lovers and current ones you'll have twenty seconds of your own to add to the small talk with that behemoth you snagged. Granted, I guarantee that she'll trade you in for something better the moment he, or she, comes her way. I doubt you'll feel any better when that the afterbirth they call a girl dumps you for a better guy or girl—just because you wanted to get laid. And she didn't even look that great.

Trust me. Stay strong.

Most of these freaks will tell you to go for that desperate, last chance, unwanted girl nobody, and not even you, desires only because they did the exact same thing themselves. And because they're stuck with their hag of a girl for life, they want to add you to the club so they don't feel like such a failure in the end.

Your standards are yours. They're what you want. It's what drives you. It's what you truly want. So don't compromise. Keep your standards. Only you can take them away or take them back. But there is one thing you'll never get back. Your dignity and self-respect. And that's a hell of a lot more valuable than those ugly ones.

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