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Anonymous 8a5bc2704a3e9dabea9630dd04d7dda2 started this discussion 2 months (2008-07-03 21:28:10 UTC) ago:
When I am on my long walks, little girls often look at me as I approach them and they approach me (with their parents/whatever) and their mouths shift between ":I" and ":3", but I can tell that they are just bubbling inside to open their cute little mouths and say something! ^-^
"Hiii!"
"What's your name?"
Etc. It's like they "have" to say something… perhaps to not be "rude"…
I never know quite how to react in those situations. Answer them and smile? Look at their parents and greet them? Just smile? Bend down and answer them in the voice you use when you talk to a pet?
How does one behave? :-S
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Anonymous 4b38718f333039bef2e39406cf406b4f replied with this 2 months (2008-07-03 21:29:44 UTC) ago, 2 minutes later (#30,297):
smile, say your name, and keep walking. ask her name, maybe. a tell her parents she's cute or pretty. walk away.
Anonymous 73ae8183af01fc12b726038a3a79c06c replied with this 2 months (2008-07-03 22:14:24 UTC) ago, 45 minutes later (#30,307):
Smile, say hi, if she asks your name, tell her and ask her name, compliment the parent, say goodbye and keep walking.
Anonymous 8a5bc2704a3e9dabea9630dd04d7dda2 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-07-03 22:18:50 UTC) ago, 4 minutes later (#30,308):
How do I compliment a loli to their parent(s) without me sounding like a horny pedophile?
Anonymous a29c5ee479b594ab6e8feae57b8fe440 replied with this 2 months (2008-07-03 23:03:37 UTC) ago, 45 minutes later (#30,311):
@30,308"What a nice daughter you have" or "It appears that you have a well mannered daughter madam"
Anonymous 73ae8183af01fc12b726038a3a79c06c replied with this 2 months (2008-07-04 00:51:01 UTC) ago, 2 hours later (#30,328):
@30,308"What an adorable daughter you have! You must be very proud of her, huh?" works. Just don't keep staring at the loli and every compliment will be fine.
Anonymous e570c5548c2a0a83532b1ccb61814fe2 replied with this 2 months (2008-07-04 01:19:14 UTC) ago, 28 minutes later (#30,336):
Little girls always say hi to me when I'm walking around. I think it's because I look lonely, although I try not to. What a stand-up thing to do, try to talk to a lonely person. Too bad their hearts of gold will turn to stone as they get older, and as teenagers they will mock lonely people.
Anonymous 8a5bc2704a3e9dabea9630dd04d7dda2 (OP) replied with this 2 months (2008-07-04 01:21:44 UTC) ago, 3 minutes later (#30,338):
@30,336Agreed. And I also suspect that some of them realize that I'm lonely…
Anonymous ef86aabf4c4ae7c67ab4b94ce780b3a9 replied with this 2 months (2008-07-04 04:37:56 UTC) ago, 3 hours later (#30,369):
Kids always look at people they are just curious. Just smile back.
Anonymous c416444898054c2d22078d14176a72d4 replied with this 2 months (2008-07-05 00:33:32 UTC) ago, 20 hours later (#30,485):
@30,308Question of the ages!
And yeah, I get a lot of little girls saying hello to me. Just today I had two little girls say "Hi!" to me as I biked by. I never know what to say. I too suspect it's because I look lonely.
Anonymous 557f0917cd5fa30dff114be152633ca4 replied with this 2 months (2008-07-07 14:57:35 UTC) ago, 3 days later (#30,938):
Tell the parents that their daughter is cute or pretty and keep walking…. No need to arouse suspicion by being overly friendly or withdrawn…
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